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The Last Supper

'Mum, I'm so sad for Jesus having a Last Supper! It is the saddest thing ever. It's horrible. Nobody should have a last supper!'

'Don't worry about the Last Supper'

'How can I not worry. Will I have a Last Supper?'


'How do you know?'

'It's something you don't need to even think about.'

'I am thinking about it'

'Well why don't you go for a nice sleep and dream of pirates'

'Which pirate?'


'Ok, Hook is the best pirate. Did Hook have a last supper?'


'Are you sure?'


'I'm so sad about the last supper!'


'Mum, how can there be Christmas if Jesus is dead?'

'I really think you should sleep now!'

'Mum, I'm not one bit happy about this!'

'I know you're not but how about, you can go for your sleep and forget about it all while you're sleeping.'

'Ok, Mum but I won't be forgetting wh…
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A breach of security

We recently had a breach of security.

Food security that is. 

The Lodgers little cousin offered him some food and he accepted.
How do I know this? He told me.

The Lodger was watching some television and I went in to check on him. 

'Mum, when is morning snack?'

'O, that's not for another hour or so Buddy.'

'Mum, Little Cousin gave me some food and I ate it.'

I paused and rapidly tried to remember what we've been advised to do in this situation. Remain calm, don't punish. Get the facts. Breathe! Count to ten. 

'Ok, and what was it that little cousin gave you?'

'O it was a bit of one of my crackers. ' 

In my mind.. PHEW!

'Ok, well next time Little Cousin offers you some food, will you ask me first if it's ok?'

'I knew it was ok for my tummy.'

'I know you did but next time will you check with me?'

'Ok. Am I in trouble?'

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Blueberries versus Mandarins

I knew it was coming. I was prepared for the ocean of calmness we were in to come crashing down with the giant wave of a PWS moment. 

Did I expect it that Monday? Not one bit. In all honesty, I’m not sure I ever expect it and my heart skips a beat when I get ‘the call’.
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Christmas time, mistletoe and breakfast!

I'm about to write a sentence that I never thought I'd write without feeling a pang of sadness. The Lodger is extremely excited for Christmas (that's not the sentence, I'll let you know when I write it.) He, as usual, has it all planned out in his mind with the backup plan of "I know things can change.'

The plan has a lot of detail but it's this line that makes me, of all things, smile.
'Mum, after we see what Santa has left. Oooo lego for me, hopefully. I'll go to the kitchen with Dad and help him make Christmas breakfast'
There's the line. 
Help him make Christmas breakfast.
The Lodger is equally as excited for Santa as he is for Christmas breakfast. 
Now, don't get me wrong, all breakfasts and meals are exciting in this house but when I've been talking to the Lodger about Christmas, his excitement for helping Dad make Christmas breakfast is joyful.

I never thought I'd say that. This is The Lodgers seventh Christmas.   I often think b…


Hopefully is our word of the moment.
Every time we plan something, I follow it up with 'but plans can change, hopefully, it will be plan A but sometimes we have to move to a different plan'. 
It's become so ingrained in our everyday life now that I don't really even take notice. 

The Lodger for his first five years had a very convenient bus/train network at our old house. Granted, things could run late but they were plentiful and always had space for everyone.

Last weekend, the Sunday plan was to get the Galway bus into Galway city to meet Dad after work. 

Hopefully, the bus will come. 
Hopefully, there'll be space for us on the bus.
Mum and Dad have a plan B, incase. 
Hopefully, the bus will come. 
Mum, why are we saying hopefully?
Ok Mum, hopefully. 

As I stood with The Lodger, at the spot where I thought the bus would stop but couldn't fully confirm it with The Lodger who expected a bus stop sign, I had an inkling of what it was like to live as The Lodger does. 

I had o…

Forest Animals

The Lodger loves walking. Which for a person with PWS is great. Accidental exercise as I like to call it. Walking in our house is often a treat. When the Lodger has a good day in school his treat is a walk to see the cows. If the day isn't so good we walk a different way punishing him with hedgerows and trees. That'll teach him.

We use incentives a lot with the Lodger to reward his good behaviour and keep him focused on little goals day by day. Luckily the excitement of a visit to see the cows keeps him on the straight and narrow most school days. The only problem now is there are plenty of cows in the fields around the house so he doesn't have to go far to watch his favourite animals.

The Lodger loves walking to school, walking to see the cows, and also walking in the forest opposite our house. The Galway forest as he calls. In his world literally the only forest in Galway. One of only two in Ireland. The other one is in Kildare if you're wondering. We often go on jaunt…